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Credentialed sources

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Eli J. Finkel

Research on how modern marriage and long term relationships work, and what partners expect from each other.

Professor of Psychology and of Management and Organizations, Northwestern University; director of the Relationships and Motivation Lab · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Julie Menanno

How couples get stuck in conflict cycles and how to feel secure with a partner.

Licensed marriage and family therapist (MA, LMFT, LCPC); author of Secure Love · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Lori Gottlieb

What happens in the therapy room, including breakups, dating choices and the stories people tell about love.

Psychotherapist; author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and The Atlantic's Dear Therapist column · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Pepper Schwartz

Research and writing on love, sex and relationships, including dating and partnership later in life.

Sociologist (PhD, Yale); Professor Emerita of Sociology, University of Washington · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Ramani Durvasula

Narcissistic and high conflict relationships, and recovering after leaving one.

Licensed clinical psychologist; Professor Emerita of Psychology, California State University, Los Angeles · credential source

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

Trending voices

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Esther Perel

Desire, infidelity and the tensions inside long term relationships, often through real couples sessions on her podcast.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Kate Anthony

Coaching and podcast conversations for women deciding whether to stay in or leave a marriage, and rebuilding life after divorce.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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Paul C. Brunson

Matchmaker, TV host and author who talks about finding and keeping love, modern dating trends, and relationships at every stage of life.

Profiles last checked October 1, 2026

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